Southern Hospitality: The Big Easy Way!

New Orleans instantly brings Mardi Gras and Bourbon Street to the minds of many adults but rarely do people think of it as a family place. So I decided to prove wrong all the naysayers by venturing out of Southern California to the Big Easy with my family.  First, we stayed at one of the unique boutique hotels located in the heart of the French Quarter—The Mason Dupuy.  From there we boarded and immediately indulged in fine Creole dinning on a Mississippi River Cruise—The Natchez Steam Boat River Cruise. The next day, we ventured into the French Quarter for some fine Creole cuisine tasting and other indulging experiences. Finally, we finished our Big Easy trip in the alligator-infested swamps near Slydell, Louisiana!

Our trip first started in sunny Southern California and soon arrived in San Antonio, Texas for a few days before we departed to New Orleans in about 8 1/5 hours.  On the way over there we drove past a few other great American cities like Houston, Beaumont and Baton Rouge to name a few, before getting to the Big Easy.  The road to New Orleans is a breathtaking one.  It is landscaped by marshes, bird life, and lots of alligator infested swamps!  At first, I felt a bit hesitant about seeing or even interacting with the alligators—who are the real owners of the swamps. But upon admiring the scenery, I embraced its beauty and it’s geographically important location in the history of the United States.

As we drove past Houston we noticed a swampy area with a wooden walkway leading into the marshy swamp where we spotted our first alligators. At first we marveled at the murky waters, bromeliad, and moss covered cypress trees with a large Heron sanctuary strewn across the marshy waters.

Nonetheless, we were determined to see alligators and sure enough, it wasn’t before long that we spotted our first pair of alligator eyes just above the water line looking at us.  It was then that behind the shield of the wooden railing, I began to take some pictures, recording the magic of the swamplands through the lens of the camera.  That was the first time we saw alligators in the wild. An absolute thrilling moment that all of us enjoyed!

As we continued our road trip, we could not help ourselves but to talk excitedly about our first encounter with the alligators and before we knew it we had arrived at New Orleans. A new world came to sight!  We could still see the remnants of hurricane Katrina but with a surprising touch of steady renovations of the historical buildings in the French Quarter.  At first, The Big Easy appears like no other with its buzzing nightlife, vibrant restaurants, world-renowned Jazz concert halls, and it’s famous party atmosphere.  But upon arriving at our hotel, I immediately felt the years of history and tradition apparent through the iconic walls of the French Quarter hotel-The Mason Dupuy.  The boutique hotel is in a class of its own because of its historical architecture, combined with a taste of the latest trends in hotel hospitality.

New Orleans without jazz would be like the vineyards without grapes.  I couldn’t wait to hear the fine musicians that perform at the French Quarter on a nightly base!  From my hotel room I had plenty of fine choices:  I could sit and absorb the view from my balcony, go for a stroll and engulf into the New Orleans ambiance of the French Quarter in less than five minutes, head down stairs for a much needed splash in the hotel’s outdoor saltwater pool or simply relax listening to jazz at the casual Bistreaux!

Well, as the curious explorer that I tend to be, I ended up doing a bit of everything! Strolling through those very old streets, I felt as if suddenly, I had landed somewhere else in the not so distant past. When done and tired from shooting pictures, we returned to the hotel and immersed ourselves into the salt-water pool.  The weather in New Orleans was warm and humid!  But then, again, it was the start of summer and most of the United States, including New Orleans, was experiencing a record-breaking heat wave. The day ended at the hotel’s Bistreaux, where we spoiled our senses with great food and jazz music from the hotel’s resident jazz musician Paul Longstreth. Later, I would visit Preservation Hall for yet another enchanting evening of more jazz.

Up and ready to discover more of New Orleans, we boarded one of the Mississippi River day cruises: the Steamboat SS Natchez, which was built in 1975.  We were welcomed by a very hospitable staff and even shook hands with the captain! Once onboard, we indulged on a delicious Creole dinner buffet, explored the port of New Orleans, wondered on the decks and eventually allowed for the current of the Mississippi River to take us into what would be another splendid sunset—all while listening to an amazing live jazz band. 

The next day, we drove about 40 miles outside of city and headed out to one of the most popular swamp tour companies. We arrived at The Cajun Encounters swamp tours and immediately enjoyed the landscape filled surroundings with a constant flow of dragonflies and a surprise sighting of wild pigs while we waited for our swamp tour!

We finally were rounded up by our guide and escorted into our aluminum build swamp tour boat. As we ventured into the swamps, I could not help but notice the abundance of wildlife. Then, came the moment we had all been waiting for. “Alligators love marshmallows!” announced our tour guide as we giggled nervously.  The guide began throwing a few in the water, and like children, the alligators devoured them as soon as they hit the water. Then came the ten-foot female alligator towards the tour guide. He immediately took out a hot dog while petting her in exchange for more treats. Amazing!

As if that wasn’t enough of a Gator experience, we managed to head on down the road for a second fill of gators at this awesome Insta-Gator Farm.  Unlike the swamp tours, the Instagator farm offers hands-on Eco-educational tours that explain the preservation of the species and its environment in a more in depth way. Some of the tours even let you interact directly with alligators by holding them while their mouths are taped.  I learned so many things about alligators: from how they build their nest to what frightens them!

There was so much more to see and do in New Orleans like:  the French Quarter haunting, its famous cemetery tours, Creole cuisine like Gumbo with delightful hot beignets to complement the meal, beautiful neighborhoods, museums, art galleries, bars in nearly every corner—and of course, Mardi Gras in the Spring.  But the most valuable thing that will forever remain in my mind and heart is the wonderful and full spirited people we met while visiting New Orleans. The voices of New Orleans echo a strong history and whisper an unbeatable and unrelenting human spirit.

A special thanks to the city of New Orleans, The Mason Dupuy, Cajun Encounters, Instagator Farms, and of course the gators who entertained us with such scaly hospitality!

 Until next time New Orleans…

Southern Hospitality: San Antonio Style

The red structure in the background is the official symbol of San Antonio.

Besides writing, traveling is one of my other passions. This year, I wanted to do something different that would be far from the norm for my family. This yearning led to a four thousand mile road trip through the southern states! My first itinerary, which was in San Antonio, consisted of: The River Walk, The Alamo, Museums, Sightseeing tours, a River Walk Cruise, The Japanese Botanical Gardens, The San Antonio Zoo, Caverns, A Water Park, the Market Square, Restaurants, Parks, the San Fernando Cathedral, Sea World, and not to mention the historical and cultural richness through out the city.

Take a tour on the city's double decker buses!

Being a photographer and author, I tend to travel with and without my family but this time summer was calling us ALL to take a trip.  Therefore, without much hesitation, at at about 2:00 a.m., I ventured out from beautiful Southern California on a family road trip going east on the ten, along with my wife, 11 yr. old daughter and 12 yr. old son. For some people, this long road trip through most of the southern states could be considered a punishment, but to my family, it was the opposite. The solemnity of the desert and the mystery of its living things opened the gates of our imagination. I’ve always wanted to visit San Antonio, the second largest city in Texas. Its rich history and cultural diversity, the home style cooking, and of course its well-known River Walk all appealed to us.

Visit the historical Alamo!

As soon as we arrived, I immediately sensed a different charm to what I have experienced in other cities. As I began to explore downtown San Antonio, I could not help to see the resemblances between the lush waterways of the River Walk and it’s beautifully assembled architectural buildings to the waterways of Venice, Italy and the 1930’s style buildings of the New York skyline. As my hunger towards food set in, I could not help to notice the abundance of inviting restaurants next to the river. I immediately chose one of the Tex-Mex restaurants I thought had the greatest view by the river. We sat there like all the other tourists, slowly savoring a cold drink while at the same time enjoying a traditional San Antonio Tex-Mex meal.

Learn about the famous San Fernando Cathedral.

I eventually found the courage to leave the confines of the restaurant to embark on a Rio Cruise that is another unique San Antonio must-do experience. As I listened to the tour guide highlighting the historical aspects of the River Walk and the architecture of the buildings that are complimented by lush and exotic flora, I became sidetracked by the thriving animal life within the beautiful greenery.

The San Antonio River Walk is as vibrant at night as in the day!

With no time to spare, early the next morning, I visited the alluring Natural Bridge Caverns. They are considered to be one of the largest caverns open to the public in Texas. Its inhabitants include bats and other small creatures of the underground world along side its most valuable asset, the limestone formations. We went through a two-hour self-paced tour marveling at how wondrous our world is. The caverns were truly another of San Antonio’s must see attractions.

The Natural Bridge Caverns are minutes away from downtown San Antonio.

From there, we stopped by another particularly enticing place: The Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch. This is a rare and truly unique drive-in zoo that offers the longest running safari park in Texas with different animal species from around the world. Upon entering the Zoo, you’re given a bag of food to feed the animals. It was beautiful to drive slowly, seeing the animals roam about as they would in their natural habitat. Then, from out of nowhere, my camera lenses detected a Llama preparing to spit into my window-but, not before I closed it!

These Long Horns are one of the many beautiful animals at The Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch.

By now, I was ready to attack my itineraries some more! The next morning, we engulfed ourselves into a 45-minute IMAX docudrama entitled “ALAMO-The price of Freedom,” at the San Antonio IMAX theatre Rivercenter. The docudrama relived the history of the unforgettable Texan and Tejano defenders fight for independence. It explained the Alamo and the immense sacrifices that were made. Watching the movie helped me gain a better understanding of the meaning of the Alamo and the many people that made the ultimate sacrifice in order for future generations to live on its land freely. This is a must do attraction!

Great restaurants are in abundance at the River Walk!

Afterwards, my family and I headed back to downtown San Antonio, which beckoned us to explore some of its many other attractions, like the Ripley’s Believe It or Not museum, that is located right across from the Alamo. As we visited the Wax Museum, we ended up having a few moments of fame with Oprah, President Obama and Jay Leno. But after getting spooked at the haunted house, we ended up paying a visit to the historical and breathtaking San Fernando Cathedral and the Main Plaza. The San Fernando Cathedral in San Antonio is said to be the oldest cathedral sanctuary in the United States. The famous Alamo defender James Bowie was married and buried there, Santa Ana used it as an observation post and other legends such as William Travis and Davy Crockett are also buried there! The cathedral is a spiritual experience to the soul and to the eyes as it has been breathtakingly designed. Afterwards, we returned to the reprieve of the River Walk for another Texas-size cold drink and the calming waters of the river.

The San Antonio Zoo is also a fun place for the whole family.

There is so much to see and do at San Antonio! There is enough for the young and old in this beautiful city like the: nightclubs, bars, zoos, ranches, caverns, eateries, museums, art galleries and more. However, what makes it all the more remarkable is its rich history and memorable southern hospitality. With that being said, I would like to express my sincere appreciation to the city of San Antonio for providing valuable tips and resources that made our experience at San Antonio—an unforgettable one.

A beautiful place indeed!

Stay tuned for Episode II—New Orleans and the Swamps!

A Chapter Sneak-Peak of My Upcoming Children's Book

I hated the school’s Wedgie Police—two mean boys who believed the world revolved around wedgies. I mean, they really had wedgies down to a science, and they expected you to wear saggy pants with a double twisty atomic wedgie to top it off. If you didn’t meet their standards, you were in big trouble.

We’d nicknamed the two main culprits Scary Harry and Bruno Sabatini. They wore sagging pants that hung five inches below their waists and showed their boxers. Their hangout was the boys’ bathrooms where they harassed the innocent by enforcing “proper” wedgie etiquette.

One day I went in the restroom and, low and behold, the Wedgie Police went for me. “Hey, Chubby, why aren’t you sagging your pants and showing off your double twisty atomic wedgie?”

“I can’t hold them up long enough, dudes. They fall down.”

“Look, Chubby, if you can’t start sagging your pants like us, we’ll have to give you a yelling wedgie and a wet-willie.” 

“I ran out of there as fast as I could, right into Principal Kakaa. “What’s going on, C.C.?”

I told him about them two, so they’d get caught before they did any more damage. He told me he’d look into it and headed for the restrooms.

Harry and Sam started running away, but their sagging pants dropped another five inches and caused them to stumble and fall all over themselves.

Ha, ha! I guess if you’re going to be a troublemaker, you shouldn’t wear saggy pants cause you’re going to be caught, lol! 

Dreaming of the Raddest Wheels

After school, I thought about going back to the park like I did in the old times to recycle cans with my best friend, Jimmy, and my old man. We did this to raise money for new skateboarding equipment. That night I dreamt of a skateboard that zoomed first into a flaming jungle where I saw a fierce tiger’s eye and then into an alley where flaming bulls appeared.

Then I dreamt of skateboarding on a ramp after school with cool and trendy friends. Jimmy also dreamed about his skateboard and about turning into the most sought-after skateboarder at school, and maybe the entire universe. 

When my dreams come true, the Wedgie Police will beg me to show them a few skateboarding tricks. That is, if they want to become a part of my cool crew. “Kiss my skateboard if you want me to be your master,” I’d demand.

A knock at the door wiped out my cool dream, and Jimmy’s face appeared. His backpack was stuffed with skateboarding gear.

“Wake up, dude. We have work to do!” he shouted.

“Jimmy, what are you doing? You know we can’t take our skateboards to school.”

“I know, dude. I’m emptying my gear here so we can fix our skateboards after school, plus I’m keeping my wheels inside my backpack for good luck, dude!”

“Good luck?” I wondered what Jimmy was up to.

“Wake up, dude! What planet are you on? We only have three more days before Halloween.”

“Sick, sick, just sick, man.” I pumped my fist in the air and bumped my chest against Jimmy’s chest. We both jumped in the air at the same time.

“Watch it man! I want to stay alive,” Jimmy shouted, as he rubbed his butt. I’m a big guy, and he’d taken a tumble after we bumped.

Then he explained his plan. “As I was saying, man, if I carry my skateboard gear to school, the day will end faster!”

“That’s a rad idea!” I agreed.

You Achieve Your Dreams When You Turn a Negative Into A Positive

I keep reading about teens committing suicide due to bullying. This shouldn't be happening but it does. As a teacher and parent of a 10 and 12 year old, I have a good idea what needs to happen in order for this problem to subside from our ever crumbling society. The core of the problem is a mixture of a few things that we hold close to our hearts.

For example, our freedom of speech privileges were challenged in the late 80's by crude lyrics of a few rap singers in the music industry. After this happened some of our children had less and less respect for their parents, teachers, other peers, and anyone with authority. One of these groups was The 2Live Crew who fought hard to degrade our precious way of life only to gain monetarily and really never help anyone else other than themselves.

Then you also have the gaming industry in which you have a lot of foul language in most, if not all, of the most popular games out there. All of this is due to the freedom of speech privilege. Yes, I know what you are saying, that the gaming industry already has a regulating system to stop the younger crowd from playing these types of games.

Well guess what, it isn't working. Take it from me that I'm a teacher that listens to the latest gossip by mostly 9 year old boys in my classroom. I'm noticing that a lot of girls are joining in the act themselves. But I think that these two industries have taken advantage of those privileges. I don't hear a whole lot of complaints by anyone anymore because they have, supposedly, better things to do. But isn't having a well mannered society a good thing?

What are the advantages of having better mannered people in our society you might ask? Well, for starters, it just gives everyone a fair chance for everyone to wait their turn and think about their actions. Now think about people that are compulsive. Studies keep showing that children that spend a lot of time hearing crude music, seeing, and playing games that have a lot of violence with bad language are at a higher risk of committing acts of violence. In general they're a detriment to our society.

So if you are an educator and feel their is someone being bullied, please taken a strong stand in this issue because we can't afford to lose anymore previous lives. More and more teachers and administrators are joining and not taking a stand on bullying and that makes me sick because it is everyone's job to make sure that bullying is eliminated as much as possible.

Adapting to Lives Constant Changes So You Can Keep Dreaming and Achieving

The dictionary definition of adaptation is the ability of a species to survive in a particular ecological niche, especially because of alterations of form or behavior brought about through natural selection.

As I lived two separate lives growing up, I learned to code switch based on whom I spend my time with. If I was with my father I had to learn how to conduct myself with a variety of well to do people. But most importantly I had to do my best with the people that counted or I would get an ear full. That was one thing you did not want to get from my father.

Then there was my mother who always had to scrap for money due to the lack of financial help from my father. She only had a 3^rd grade education from her home country and did not know any English. This forced her to either work for hotels or for the rich in Beverly Hills as a cleaning lady. When she didn’t have a job she had to ask for government assistance. But after the age of nine I really got obsessed with the game of baseball. Most of my time was spent playing the game. I eventually became part of the best baseball team that my high school ever had. My success in high school followed me to college when I walked on and made it to the Arizona State University team. This is an example of having a goal/dream and pursuing it until you fulfill it. To this date, this event has become a memorable accomplishment and a failure as well. But don’t let me bore you with my life, let’s consider one of the masters of adaptation: Bruce Lee, who would constantly preach about the art of having no form when fighting in order to adapt according to the fighting situation. He would say, “be like water. When you pour water in a cup it becomes a cup. If you pour water into a bottle it becomes the bottle, if you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can either flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.”

I recall reading about Bruce Lee after looking into his biography. I learned to become water and as a result eventually finished college with several degrees and credentials, all which have shaped me into what I’m now. Adaptation has been one of the key ingredients throughout my college career. But do you think that this was enough in acquiring a stable job? No, not at all, it is just the beginning. Apart from looking good on paper I had learned a lot more in order to be highly successful. I had to learn to adapt to the different cultures at every job site that I have worked at.

It hasn’t been easy but you have to be open-minded to whatever is thrown at you. Being prepared is key in your continued success in your goals/dreams. Anticipation of things to come helps out a lot when things arise. Don’t get caught off guard. 

WHAT IT IS TO BE RESILIENT?

The dictionary definition for resiliency is the ability to recover readily from illness, depression, adversity, or the like; buoyancy.

When applied to our own lives, resiliency comes to be this and more.  It becomes the act of gaining more power when you might think all might have been lost. Resiliency is the art of bouncing back, floating through life and staying alive. Resiliency is the most vital character trait anyone could own.  This is one of the main reason you have stories from rags to richness. 

Individuals who have overcome adversity in its worse forms: survival of war, abuse, starvation, persecution, etc. are often powered by the challenge of a better life versus those who have had it all and have nothing to compare their lives to.  When you become resilient, you are able to overcome obstacles in your life with more focus, patience, and positive thoughts.